Dad passes out hot dogs and french fries, father of the year. But Mama, I hope that meal is home-cooked and organic.
The bar is always set just out of reach and frequently changes. Meanwhile, we pass out trophies to dads for their participation.
A father’s absence is so normalized, that his presence receives automatic praise. We expect them to work outside the home and we never question their commitment to their family, but a career woman has lost sight of what’s important.
You stay home all day, 365 consecutive fourteen-hour shifts. They’ll focus on your weekend away, not all the time you put in.
I’m sure he is a great dad.
But you’re a great mom, and I know you might not ever hear that.
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