Broadway Star Has a Message to the Autistic Child Screaming at His Show–And It’s Awesome!

Some people have Disneyland on their bucket list, some people have skydiving, and many have Broadway. While many people dream of getting to attend a show in the great theater only few get to and even fewer get to perform on the grand stage. Actor Kelvin Moon Loh is one of those rare ones lucky enough to make the cut as an actor. Today, it’s not his acting that we’re impressed with, it’s his heart.

It was during a matinee showing of “The King and I” that Loh stopped the show when he heard a commotion in the audience.

The show had just gotten to a pretty intense scene when a young boy in the crowd began screaming. The boy’s mother did her best to lead him quietly into the lobby but the boy wouldn’t move. It didn’t take long before surrounding audience members started making comments towards the mother and her disruptive son.

“A few people just got upset,” Loh said. While he realized the screaming child disrupted the show he didn’t understand how anyone would actually insult the mother. For Loh, something was obvious that everyone else was missing, the child had autism. 

“I was just emotional when I got off the stage.” Loh said.

Loh understood the courage it takes to bring a child with autism out in public, let alone to Broadway, so when people started giving the mother a hard time Loh had to do something.

“I thought that what was happening wasn’t right,” Loh said.

Later he posted this on Facebook:

“I am angry and sad.
Just got off stage from today’s matinee and yes, something happened. Someone brought their autistic child to the theater.
That being said- this post won’t go the way you think it will.
You think I will admonish that mother for bringing a child who yelped during a quiet moment in the show. You think I will herald an audience that yelled at this mother for bringing their child to the theater. You think that I will have sympathy for my own company whose performances were disturbed from a foreign sound coming from in front of them.
No.Instead, I ask you- when did we as theater people, performers and audience members become so concerned with our own experience that we lose compassion for others?

The theater to me has always been a way to examine/dissect the human experience and present it back to ourselves. Today, something very real was happening in the seats and, yes, it interrupted the fantasy that was supposed to be this matinee but ultimately theater is created to bring people together, not just for entertainment, but to enhance our lives when we walk out the door again.

It so happened that during ‘the whipping scene’, a rather intense moment in the second act, a child was heard yelping in the audience. It sounded like terror. Not more than one week earlier, during the same scene, a young girl in the front row- seemingly not autistic screamed and cried loudly and no one said anything then.

How is this any different? His voice pierced the theater. The audience started to rally against the mother and her child to be removed.

I heard murmurs of ‘why would you bring a child like that to the theater?’. This is wrong. Plainly wrong.

Because what you didn’t see was a mother desperately trying to do just that. But her son was not compliant. What they didn’t see was a mother desperately pleading with her child as he gripped the railing refusing- yelping more out of defiance. I could not look away. I wanted to scream and stop the show and say- ‘EVERYONE RELAX. SHE IS TRYING. CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT SHE IS TRYING???!!!!’ I will gladly do the entire performance over again. Refund any ticket because-

For her to bring her child to the theater is brave. You don’t know what her life is like. Perhaps, they have great days where he can sit still and not make much noise because this is a rare occurrence. Perhaps she chooses to no longer live in fear, and refuses to compromise the experience of her child. Maybe she scouted the aisle seat for a very popular show in case such an episode would occur. She paid the same price to see the show as you did for her family. Her plan, as was yours, was to have an enjoyable afternoon at the theater and slowly her worst fears came true.

I leave you with this- Shows that have special performances for autistic audiences should be commended for their efforts to make theater inclusive for all audiences. I believe like Joseph Papp that theater is created for all people. I stand by that and also for once,

I am in a show that is completely FAMILY FRIENDLY. The King and I on Broadway is just that- FAMILY FRIENDLY- and that means entire families- with disabilities or not. Not only for special performances but for all performances. A night at the theater is special on any night you get to go.

And no, I don’t care how much you spent on the tickets.”

He may have just been trying to open up to his friends but this Facebook post has made its way all over the world!

Not just mothers, but all kinds of people from all over the world have reached out to share how much his post has meant to them.

“People who love the theater and people who work in the theater, they all came to it because in some way they felt different,” Loh said. “They felt in some way they didn’t belong, that they were of the outside. And so many people have that background.”

It’s not always convenient or easy to love those around us, but when we learn the whole story instead of judging a page you miss out on the reality of what that person is dealing with. 

“It’s a difficult choice to lead with love first, but at the end of the day, that’s what life is about,” Loh said.

Well done Loh, and thank you!

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Lairs Johnston
Lairs is the Marketing Director for Save the Storks. Born and raised in Bellingham, Washington, Lairs acclimated easily to the cold weather of Colorado Springs but has yet to be okay with the lack of any form of water. With a fascination for sports and music and a passion for people, snowboarding, and rock climbing, Lairs is a perfect fit for this city! He’s 30 but reads at a 32 year old level. With a desire to foster and adopt, Lairs sees how kids don’t eliminate dreams, they fulfill them.