3 Amazing Reasons You Can Keep Going, Mama

Sometimes it’s tough to just keep going, isn’t it? Iā€™m pretty sure summer brings out a whole other brand of crazy in me. Something about not having a schedule or routine with these long days of no quiet makes me feel like Iā€™m losing my compass. Not to mention that weā€™ve decided to have a monsoon season in June here in western Maryland. Neighborhood pool, maybe weā€™ll see you in July? Maybe?

While making one of those ā€œI just have to get out of the houseā€ errands, I saw another mom of littles at the store. She had that crazy, Iā€™m about to scream air about her. Her kids were pushing the preschooler size grocery carts around the produce section, and she was trying to keep them from running over her feet.

We exchanged a brief look of ā€œI know what youā€™re feeling. Keep going, mama.ā€

It was just an instant, but it put a smile on my face. Thereā€™s something about knowing youā€™re not alone that makes you able to take the next breath, the next step, isnā€™t there?

When I climbed into the car, a D.J. on the Christian radio station was saying how everything we do can bring glory to God. Not just the big things others see or the mountaintop experiences. Each and every moment we do something with love, it matters.

Now, can I be honest here? Iā€™ve heard this so many times itā€™s almost become a clichĆ©. I know the Steven Curtis Chapman song and can recite the lyrics. I know the verse. (Colossians 3:17) But there are times I hear things like this and the cynical side of me says, ā€œYeah right.ā€

I donā€™t look at the pile of dishes sitting in my sink or the sticky floors and think as Iā€™m cleaning, ā€œJesus is here!ā€

God help me. But itā€™s the truth.

So I asked God to show me. To soften my heart. The tired soul in me wanted evidence, and I felt a lot like the father of the demon-possessed child in Matthew, crying out, ā€œGod, help my unbelief!ā€

You know what? God did help him. He answered him with a miracle. And he helped me too. Heā€™s much more patient and merciful than I deserve.

Here are three ways our unseen lives matter and bring glory to God:

  1. We become like Jesus.

Did you know there are miracles Jesus performed that no one will ever know about? John tells us if every miracle were recorded, the earth could not contain all the books they would fill. (John 21:25) Thatā€™s pretty incredible. So, if theyā€™re not recorded, does that mean they didnā€™t matter? Of course not. It means they were for a specific time. A specific space in history. While we may never know about them, we get to see what mattered to Jesus by the events that were recorded. People mattered. Individuals with unique lives and families mattered. He stopped and noticed the single person, not just the masses.

  1. We get to know Jesus better.

During the summer months, itā€™s sometimes difficult for me to think a coherent thought, let alone have a meaningful quiet time. But I do get moments, and I can make the moments count. I can whisper prayers to God when I need his strength and ask for his grace to cover me when my nerves are shot. When my toddler throws a tantrum because I wonā€™t give her gummy worms for lunch, I can take a deep breath, walk away and say, ā€œJesus, help me.ā€ No, I donā€™t mean this as a joke. Iā€™m dead serious. And you know what? He does. He shows me himself. Sometimes I see him through a brief encounter with another mom at a grocery store and other times itā€™s through a bear hug from my six-year-old at just the right time, but heā€™s always there.

  1. Others see, even when we donā€™t realize it.

I canā€™t tell you the number of times someone has remarked about my kidsā€™ behavior, my writing, or something else, and I would never have known they noticed me. They said something at just the right time, often on a day I needed a boost of encouragement, and it kept me going. I know you donā€™t have an audience (except your kids, perhaps) when youā€™re doing the dishes. You probably donā€™t have one when youā€™re putting your kids to bed either. But you know what?

Our unseen work will always affect the work we do for an audience.

The heart and the love we pour into those unseen hours? It will carry into the lives we live in front of others. It will cause a ripple effect, spreading over to other areas. We may not even notice at the time, but it will.

If youā€™re having trouble believing those unseen hours matter today, will you do me a favor? Come to God and just be honest. I promise he can handle it. He wonā€™t turn away or give you a cold shoulder. He may even show you a little glimpse of what youā€™ve been missing.

This article originally appeared here.


Abby McDonald
Abby McDonald
Abby is a writing coach and the author of Shift: Changing Our Focus to See the Presence of God. Her mission is to empower women to seek God in the middle of lifeā€™s messes and to share their faith with courage. Abby writes regularly for Proverbs 31 Ministriesā€™ daily devotions team, and her work has been featured in numerous publications. You can connect with Abby on herĀ website where you can grab a free worship playlist to help you shift your focus toward God. You can also connect with Abby onĀ Instagram.

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