Can I be honest with you?
Even as I write this, I’m in the thick of the raw of life. This week, I struggled to help my child with sensory processing disorder, had disrupted sleep, overcame a fear and experienced a milestone victory, experienced deep personal hurt, and had a number of things not go as planned (Have I ever told you how much I love plans?). I bet if we sat down for coffee, we could talk for hours about countless decisions, the beautiful highs and the legitimately hard. We know all too well that when the waves come crashing in – in whatever form they come – an inspiring quote or the quick fix of man’s praise won’t cut it. I’ve often wished that I could hit pause on life so that I could process all the things going on in and around me, but yet, I’ve noticed that often my greatest sense of clarity in life and motherhood has been gained in the place where anchors mean the most – in a storm. Maybe our greatest storm is our greatest opportunity in disguise.
Seven Questions, Seven Anchoring Answers
For me, I’ve found that if I can posture my heart around truth, I can provoke my heart to the power and perspective of that truth in every season and situation. These seven questions have become my greatest allies in doing just that. After each question, I’ll let you in on some of my own personal dialogue with God around each one. One simple request: Let’s agree that comparison doesn’t have a place at our table. All of our journeys are sponsored and made possible by a constant supply of undeserved grace from God.
You’ll notice the first 4 questions heavily rely upon knowledge of Scripture. Since God’s Word is living and active, powerful in renewing our minds and leading us into victorious living, that’s where this anchoring starts. Don’t be overwhelmed though. I’ve created a free printable here with the 7 questions and several Scripture references under each question if you’re not sure where to start.
What do I know about God’s nature?
God, You are infinite. There is no lack in You. In all your nature, you are abundant without any “Jekyll or Hyde”propensities. Because of that, my heart is safe with You.
What does God think about me? Who does God say I am?
I am chosen by God and loved with an everlasting love. I am uniquely and wonderfully made by God. He knows and loves how I’m wired. He will supply all that I need to walk in who He’s created me to be.
What has the work of Christ accomplished?
I don’t have to strive for justification in my flesh or strain through good works to be good enough. Only Christ is “good enough” and He has won my freedom, which enables me to exchange my sin for Christ’s perfect record. I have become the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus. By God’s grace, I’m learning to live in the newness of Christ’s abundant life.
What does God desire for my family?
God desires for my family to flourish and grow together even as we grow in Him. He desires my home to be a place of sanctification, joy and a launch pad into the faith adventures God has already prepared for us. Where there’s pain, He desires to bring healing. Where there’s struggle, He wants to empower us to overcome. Where there’s weakness, He invites us to discover His strength.
What is God up to right now? In me, my family, and each respective member?
