As many before me already know, this kids-leaving-for-college gig is a complicated space. I confess I don’t always know how to do it well. But I’m trying.
The mama bear within just wants to be sure everything will be okay.
I find myself in the quietness of early mornings wondering and reflecting. Did I do enough? Did we have enough important conversations? How can I best let go and believe that all the joys and challenges of life have prepared our eldest for this new chapter?
“You’ll get mixed up, of course, as you already know. You’ll get mixed up with many strange birds as you go. So be sure when you step. Step with care and great tact and remember that Life’s a Great Balancing Act. Just never forget to be dexterous and deft. And never mix up your right foot with your left.”
~Dr. Seuss
I can only imagine the knot in my stomach one week from today as we load the van and make our way to the airport. There will be excitement, nerves, joy, and almost certainly a few tears.
The knot in my stomach will most certainly be present. Yet, I’ll be ever so proud and eager to see what upcoming months hold for my scooting son who has grown into a fine young man, flying to new places.
And interestingly enough, one of the first tasks he wants to complete involves the purchase of a bike to get around his new city in England.
Oh, The Places You Will Go
Next week, I’ll remember Dr. Seuss as I add, “Congratulations! Today is your day. You’re off to Great Places! You’re off and away!”
And then I’ll whisper my own words, “Oh, the places you will go, my son. Trust your inner strength as you share your compassion and passions with the world. Blessings as you go and continue to grow!”
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This article originally appeared at HazHope.com.
