Ashley LeMieux: What A Failed Adoption Taught Me About Courage

One year, in the middle of the fight, Z’s school had a “Daddy-Daughter Donut Morning” around Thanksgiving.

Each child decorated a pumpkin for their dad with words that described him. One of the words Z chose was “Courageful.” Nobody had ever called Mike (or anybody) “courageful” before, so he asked her what it meant. She looked him right in the eye, flashed her big Z smile and replied, “It means you’re fully of courage, Daddy. You’re fully of courage because you protect me and keep me safe from anything bad.”

Sisters, you might not know it or always feel it, but you are “courageful” too.

The morning Z looked into me and reminded me not to forget my courage ended up being one of the days I needed it the most. It was a brutal punishing court day, but because I had my courage, because I was aware of it, I wasn’t afraid. Fear is life asking you to do something brave, so even if you don’t quite believe you are ready, you are. Accept the invitation, step into your glory, and allow it to grow by making one hard choice at a time. Remember your courage every time you step out the door.


This is an excerpt from Born to Shine: Practical Tools to Help You SHINE, Even in Life’s Darkest Moments

About Ashley LeMieux

When Ashley LeMieux and her husband lost their children in an adoption battle, it sent her into a tailspin that, ultimately, taught Ashley how to soar. Most people live with constant fears, burdens, and pains. Born to Shine shares Ashley’s message of hope for women brave enough to say that everything is not okay. The message is also for those who want the courage to believe they are not done yet―the unique message that acknowledges the overwhelming truth that even when life is in ruins, people can still shine. Born to Shine tells the LeMieux’s story in installments with alternating chapters and practical applications in between. It shares stories, lessons, and practical tools to help women shine despite the darkness, to press forward one day at a time even when there is no end in sight, and to turn their most painful moments into their greatest teachers and signposts to true, deep, unassailable joy. Grab your copy today!

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