God May Not Have a Wonderful Plan for Your Life

If I’ve heard it once, I’ve heard it a million times:

God has a wonderful plan for your life.

Tell this to a grieving mother standing beside a gaping grave dug for her child.  Tell it to a man who can’t keep the voices away, who longs to be normal but can’t will his mind to function properly.  Tell it to a woman who was raped.  Tell it to a child while he is being cut into pieces and suctioned from his mother’s womb.

I understand the sentiment behind what we are saying when we use this phrase.  But, my friends, look around you.  A great many people live lives full of sorrow, tragedy, horror, pain, and abuse.

Where is God in all this? the seeker will ask.  What does God have to do with the pain and the sorrow in this world?

Why, everything.

He sees, He cares, He knows, and, yes, His will reigns supreme.  This world is broken.  We are broken people.  God told us this would be so.  He never promised a wonderful life.  In fact, He promised hardship.  Jesus said the poor will be blessed.  But, He didn’t say He would end poverty.  He said those who mourn will be comforted.  But, He never promised that mourning wouldn’t be part of our lives.

Melissa Edgington
Melissa Edgington
Melissa Edgington is a Jesus-loving mom of three great kids and a pastor's wife who loves blogging about faith and her life's adventures at the (hilariously named!) Your Mom Has a Blog. You can also catch her on Facebook, Pinterest, and Twitter.

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