I no longer sit at tables where I might be the topic when I get up.
Can I get an AAAAAMMMMEEENNNNN?!?!⠀
I used to think that in order to belong I had to sit at that kinda table. ⠀
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I used to think that this is “just how women are.” ⠀
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I used to think that I just didn’t belong, that I wasn’t enough.⠀
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DUDE, let me drop another mic with a little Brene Brown talk…⠀
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“Our worth cannot be determined nor negotiated by other people.”⠀
So if you’re sitting at the table where the topic of conversation is someone else’s shortcomings, mistakes, imperfections flaws, or lawd the he-said-she-said gossip…⠀
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I assure you that when you leave your seat, you’re likely the next topic of conversation.
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GIRL, GET A NEW TABLE. ⠀