We make time, even when we don’t ‘have’ the time. We are intentional. We schedule date nights. We are far from perfect at this, but we strive to do well because of who Christ is to us.
And to be honest, passion hasn’t left us, it has only grown in us.
Colossians 3:17 says, “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”
Hear me out on this: the designs of our bodies don’t make God feel embarrassed. We were created and purposed for sexual pleasure. Living out an exciting and passionate sex life is glorifying to Him, not shocking.
Just as we regularly pursue excellent communication or servitude with our spouses to honor God, we should also pursue a holy and thriving sex life for the same purpose.
If you aren’t yet married, I want to be the person who tells you the truth:
Sex in marriage can be better than anything you’ve ever imagined. It can be beautiful, fun, passionate and an act that draws you even closer to the person you love so deeply.
But it must be a choice. Some days it will take intentionality, selflessness and love, just like everything else in marriage, but the outcome will always, always be worth it.
Sweet friends, God wants to free us from the belief that sex is an obligation or a duty or that it should be associated with guilt or shame. As wives and husbands, He has given us the freedom to enjoy it. He wants to free you from past sin or abuse with love, forgiveness and grace. You may be burdened by pain, but Jesus has overcome.
Isaiah 1:18 reminds us, “Though your sins are like scarlet, I will make them as white as snow. Though they are red like crimson, I will make them as white as wool.”
Friends, there are two options:
Either the enemy can use sex and intimacy as a weapon against you with the goal of pulling you apart and destroying your marriage.
Or you can choose to use this gift against him with the goal to thrive and honor God in your marriage.
Which will you choose?
Want to hear more on the topic of Sex and Intimacy?
On The Milk and Honey Podcast, we are having some girl talk about sex! We are sharing our own personal stories and Two Ways that You Can Grow in Sexuality and Intimacy in Your Marriage.
We hope that this episode will bring you some laughter and a lot of encouragement as we share wisdom about biblical intimacy, discussion on what our bodies need, sex drive, dealing with past abuse, making time for sex while having children and much more!
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