Because if Christianity is really true, it can’t just be a “nice idea” that we pull out when it’s convenient. Or something we think about when we’re at church, but set aside during the week. If Jesus is who He says He is—the Son of God and Creator of the Universe—then He needs and wants to be a part of every aspect of our lives. And that’s why you should make sure you teach your kids to pray.
I want them to know they can come to Him with anything at any time.
When you teach your kids to make prayer a habit—something they instinctively do throughout their day—it requires us as parents to be intentional.
Here are some great times throughout the day to teach your kids how to pray
1. In the car
I have always loved car time with my kids. They’re a captive audience. There are few distractions, so they always seem unusually open to conversation and prayer. I’ve prayed with them on the way to school almost every morning from preschool to high school.
I pray for God to bless and guide their day. That they will see God’s activity and feel His presence throughout their day. I ask God to give them the wisdom and courage to follow His Holy Spirit’s guidance.
When they were small, their prayers were short and simple. But as they’ve gotten older, their prayers have become more and more rich and specific. They often pray for my needs and for others’ hurts and safety. It’s been a beautiful thing to watch. That’s what happens when you teach your kids to pray.
2. Teach your kids to pray at bedtime
I started this ritual when Molly was still in her crib. She was so small that all she could do was put her chubby little hands together and bow her head.
Today, both my kids are teens. Their bedtime routine is much less predictable. But by the time they reached this stage, both were regularly doing their own prayer and/or devotional time at night. They don’t do it every night, but it’s something they both do regularly—and on their own initiative.
3. When they’re upset or worried
Whether it’s a fight with a friend or a lost textbook, I’ve always tried to point my kids to God for help. I think this has been a key aspect of making prayer a habit for them. When they’ve lifted up their concerns to God over and over again—and then watched Him work in sometimes miraculous ways—they’ve experienced a deeper faith and dependence on God.
They’ve seen firsthand His relevance to their everyday trials and worries. He’s not just an “idea.” He’s real and He cares about what they care about—no matter how small.
4. When they’re happy or grateful
We’ve prayed to thank God when good things happen in our lives and shared with Him when we’re excited or happy. Just like we would a friend.
Of course, we pray at mealtimes and other times throughout the day, as well. My goal is that my children don’t think of prayer as an “event.” Instead, I want them to view it as a natural and valuable ongoing dialogue with the One who loves them more than they can possibly imagine.
In many ways, my children are just starting on their journeys with God. He still has much work to do in their hearts and lives. But, with God’s help and leading, I’m trying to lay a firm foundation of faith that He will continue to build on.
Because my prayer is that they will always be swinging with Jesus.
