Screen Time Doesn’t Have to Turn Your Kids Into “Psychotic Junkies”

A few months ago, I saw a New York Post article entitled “It’s ‘digital heroin’: How screens turn kids into psychotic junkies“.

At the time, I could not bring myself to read it. Could there BE a more inflammatory headline aimed at guilt-ridden parents? But eventually, I did read it, because it was the most-shared parenting article on the Internet in 2016, with over 2.3 million shares.

Why did it get ALL those shares? Because CLEARLY, we parents don’t want technology to turn our kids into “psychotic junkies.” However, I am here to tell you that “screen time” is not the enemy—if we are responsible and vigilant with the way our kids use it. In fact, in my parenting, screen time has been an absolute ally and a help to me in my children’s education.

You see, two out of my three children had a developmental delay in their preschool years. As a mom, I did EVERYTHING I could to help them overcome these delays. I worked with their therapists and teachers to make therapy and learning fun, and an EXTREMELY useful tool in my arsenal were screen time games and apps. With an iPad and a desktop computer, I helped them ENJOY learning things that were difficult for them, and what’s more, WANT to and look forward to learning.

Of course, we also did a huge amount of hands-on learning: there’s no replacement for board games, books, getting messy, play-doh and time outside. If you are cutting these things out of your child’s life in favor of screens, STOP. But if you want to use screens to supplement and encourage your child’s learning, PLEASE don’t feel bad about it! Pursue it and make it work for your family.


For some reason my son Jonah thinks this is a comfortable position to play iPad!

One way I did this with my youngest, Jonah (now 6), is through the website and app ABCMouse.com. Jonah was harder to work with at home than my older daughter was, so I had to be extra creative! When his preschool teacher began using ABCMouse with him at school, he LOVED and pursued it, and so she sent home a code for us to try it out at home. She had picked certain activities for him to do, and soon he was loving it so much, I was using it as a REWARD after our work time together, even though it was actually PART of my strategy to help him learn. (Insert victorious cackle! Ha ha!) Soon, we signed up for a 30-day free trial to give Jonah access to the whole site, and we ended up continuing our membership for well over a year because it was so good for him, and because it’s super-affordable. It was a not only a literal small price to pay, but it was figuratively a small price to pay for my kiddo being willing to participate in the things I needed him to do to accomplish his educational goals.


Jenny Rapson
Jenny Rapson
Jenny is a follower of Christ, a wife and mom of three from Ohio and a freelance writer and editor.

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