Finding your balance helps direct you towards contentment, the sense of being comfortable where we find ourselves in life. Contentment starts with us, not our husbands, children, or other family members. I really do believe it’s possible to be content, even when you’re overwhelmed, frustrated, confused, and exhausted but it is hard. I certainly haven’t mastered the concept yet but when we’re honest about where we are in this moment we take the first step to towards contentment.
We get to decide our balance. No one else will say “no” for you. Maybe you need to say “yes” even if life’s hard right now but even more times you might need to be realistic and say “no” to good things. You’re the only person who really understands how to balance your life. What I do know from experience is that exhaustion is not the long-term path to success.
Tired mama, take a break. Be honest about your life right now, what responsibilities and opportunities are competing for your time? Don’t forget your dreams, but realize that maybe it’s not the time for them yet. Work to find your balance and include your people. Share your frustrations and your dreams with those you trust and allow them to help you make a path forward. Most importantly, take some time to rest and relax. It may sound selfish or frivolous, but you are neither of those things. Taking care of yourself is important. You will be a better mother when you do.
The world will not end if you aren’t in the PTA, take a break from some church activities, or say no to some kid activities. Taking care of yourself is the only way to really take care of your family.
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This article originally appeared at KellyBeckleyShank.com.
