When Words Aren’t Really Worth It

Our prayers, given to a Father who already knows, are about being with Him. Seeking to understand Him. Praying to the One who already knows. I can probably be a little less lengthy with my words in my prayer.

If I stopped talking, what would He have to say? 

Am I seeking to be understood or to understand? 

I want to understand Him and others. To keep my eyes fixed on Him and on those around me. It’s easy to let my words fill the empty spaces instead of allowing His Words to speak to me.

I spray painted a verse so many years ago on the back of a t-shirt. At the time, it was for a team, and we were all picking favorite verses and putting them on the back of our shirts for our team. I didn’t have a favorite verse, so I picked one out of a favorite chapter.

“Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.”

Words written by James all those years ago, spray painted neon orange on the back of my t-shirt some 17 years ago still ring as true today as they did during the dozens of games played in the shirt. When I wrote the verse it was more about being slow to anger.

But am I quick to hear?

Quick to hear His heart?

Quick to hear others’ hearts?

Or quick to hear the sound of my own voice?

When he washed the dishes a few nights after our one-sided discussion, the sunset outlined him in gorgeous hues of pink, orange, yellow. His head bent low, loading dishes into the dishwasher, unaware of the beauty if he only looked out the window.

I’ve been unaware of the beauty all around me. I’ve silenced voices longing to be understood. There’s beauty in all the stories around us. If I spend the rest of my life talking when I should be listening, I’ll miss them all.

I’ve promised to not miss a thing.

I promised it to him days after the lecture. I promise to hear you, to seek to understand your heart. To be a better picture of a parent who is listening to the innermost working of a heart that beats as passionately as mine.

I promised it to the One to whom I’ve prayed one-sided prayers. I’ll be quiet, I told Him. I’ll listen more than I speak. Maybe the heavens have felt so silent because I’ve filled the space with words that should have given way to the wisdom of silence. It’s been hard, this being quiet before the Lord. And hard to be quiet before those I love. To give His voice prominence over mine. To give their hearts preference over my own. I’ve loved the sound of my own voice more than I’ve loved the sound of others. The quiet has been calming, the heavens stretching wide open with a promised peace. My people listening for words and realizing I’m listening to their own.

Beauty here in quiet spaces.

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This article originally appeared at GratefullyBroken.com.


Jaime Dishman
Jaime Dishmanhttp://www.gratefullybroken.com
Jaime Dishman is the mother of five children who will never let her forget about the time she ran over the can of spray paint. She blogs at www.gratefullybroken.com, where she considers it a joy to count all the broken places as blessings.

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