Last night at ESPN’s annual sports awards, the ESPYs something extraordinary happened. The Arthur Ashe Courage Award, named for the famed tennis player who died of AIDS, was presented to not one, but to over 300 honorees: the survivors of sexual assault by former USA Gymnastics team doctor Larry Nassar. Over 140 of those survivors took the stage to receive the award from actress Jennifer Garner, after an incredibly powerful video featuring many of them and narrated by Garner aired. I strongly urge you to take nine minutes out of your day to watch these women who could be you, who could be your daughters.
The recipients of the Arthur Ashe Courage Award weren’t only victims of Larry Nassar
These women weren’t just Nassar’s victims, they were, as Garner says,victims of a culture where “no one wanted to stand in the way of accolades and gold medals…where athletes were disposable.”
Watching the video is hard, but so necessary. The athletes describe Nassar as “shameless” and “very brazen.” It’s important to note and understand that he was able to operate that way because other adults that should have been protecting these children allowed him to. Why should he fear getting caught? It’s sickening.
As I watched the group take the stage amid a standing ovation from the audience, I got goosebumps. The reason? There were just so many of them. If you watch the video replay, you will see that it takes almost two full minutes for all of those survivors to make their way up on stage. They just kept coming, and coming, and coming, from the wings of the stage and from the audience. It was incredible, inspiring, and heartbreaking all at the same time. Because…the women there represented less than half of the survivors who have come forward, and common sense tells you there are certainly dozens if not hundreds more.
Klein, Lopez, and Raisman gave a powerful Arthur Ashe Courage Award acceptance speech
Three of the survivors led the way and gave a joint speech while accepting the Arthur Ashe Courage Award: Sarah Klein, who identified herself as Nassar’s first known victim, her abuse taking place thirty years ago, softball player Tiffany Thomas Lopez, and Olympic gold medalist Aly Raisman. The women all had powerful things to say, but this quote from Raisman struck me as the most profound, and the most tragic:
“The ripple effect of our actions, or inactions, can be enormous, spanning generations. Perhaps the greatest tragedy of this nightmare is that it could have been avoided. Whether you act or do nothing, you are shaping the world that we live in. Impacting others. All we needed was one adult to have the integrity stand between us and Larry Nassar.”
Raisman’s words ring devastatingly true.
I encourage you to watch their acceptance speech video as well. Watch how long it takes for 141 victims of the same man’s sexual abuse bravely take the stage. Watch and be empowered by their strength.