Even if your child isn’t quite old enough to vocalize their opinions, there are some things you can do to gauge their feelings and get them ready for the possibility of a new addition. There are plenty of books geared toward preparing a child to become a big brother or sister. You can also get your child a doll (or a “baby” of their own) and teach them how to take care of it.
4. Can You Physically Handle Another Pregnancy?
While every pregnancy is different, you do need to consider if you’re physically ready to handle carrying another baby for nine months. Those who had a difficult or painful first pregnancy (or that experienced a traumatic birth) may be a bit hesitant when it comes to getting pregnant again. Even those who had a relatively easy first pregnancy may find themselves wondering if they can manage another one. Take your health, both physical and mental, into consideration when making your decision.
5. How Do You and Your Spouse Feel About Another Baby?
It’s crucial to weigh your feelings and your spouse’s feelings when deciding to have another baby. You might want to have one or two more, but your spouse may not want anymore (or vice versa). Or, perhaps your spouse is hesitant, but they’re open to the idea. Open and honest communication is essential. Adding another family member will change your family forever, so everyone needs to be on the same page.
Every family is different. Some feel they’re complete with one child, while others want several. There is no right or wrong answer here. If you’re considering another baby, it’s time to sit down and have a good, long discussion with your partner. If your first child is old enough, don’t forget to include him or her in some of the talks as well. Together, you’ll find the best answer for your family.
