You are ten.
And that’s what ten year olds should do.
Some broken aspect of society has altered our ten year old daughters into thinking that they should be pretty at ten.
Pretty?
My goodness – you should be fast and you should be hungry and you should be tired from swinging on a rope all day and you should be curious about what happens to Sara at the end of The Little Princess novel
but you should NOT think about your hair or if your outfit shows off your trim figure.
Figure?
For the love – you shouldn’t even know what one is.
You are TEN.
I want your world to be made up of laughter and sunshine and inside jokes with your siblings – of learning how to bake and learning how to care for the pets in your yard and learning how to pursue a craft or a hobby or a sport that you show promise in.
That’s ten.
And I am convinced that refraining from the gift of a personal iPhone or an ipad or a TV in your room or unlimited and unrestricted computer time is the best way I know how to guarantee you see yourself as a ten year old for the entire time you are one.
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This article originally appeared at SoEveryday.com.
